The case of a girl with a haircut, writer Hoang Anh Tu shared: If you do not love a child, please do not be a teacher

In the evening of March 22, the public was stirred by the incident of a teacher at Doi Can High School (Vinh Tuong, Vinh Phuc) who used to use scissors to cut girls in the classroom.According to the shared images, a 10th -grade female student of Doi Can high school stood near the podium.After that, the teacher used a scissors to cut a handful of this female hair and said, "I will not cut it beautifully but cut the smear to you because I have reminded it before".

Being cut by the teacher, this female student panicked back and said, "My hair is blonde", the teacher replied "standing still, gold or not it is what I have already.After I cut a lot, not this. "

It is known that immediately after capturing the information, the Department of Education and Training of Vinh Phuc province directed the relevant departments to clarify the case with the leader of Doi Can High School, and asked the school to work with extra.Brothers, students involved and the teacher have the behavior of the girl's hair cut and have a specific report.

Currently, the case is causing a lot of debate streams.Many people think that students may be stubborn but the teacher's handling is not, lack of calmness and are hurting the self -respect of students.

Talking about the incident, writer Hoang Anh Tu recently shared on his personal page, received much attention from parents.With his permission, we would like to share the following:

Do not discipline with anger

The teacher in Vinh Tuong did so, cutting her hair and raising it as a deterrent.Maybe the teacher is too angry with this female student who does not comply with the school's rules, highlight hair dyeing, reminded many times but still recidivism.The teacher considered it a challenge and behaved with the power that the school and family entrusted: Considering students as their children and the right to teach them.The teacher thinks so.

Discipline a child is something that must be in educating children.Especially for the indelible children.We, those outsiders can talk about positive discipline, advice, gently tell the board, ... is because we do not directly face the indelible children, even challenges,Anti -attack and attack teachers.Should discipline a child is something to do when the child overcome all limits to be able to advise.Like the law also has specific punishments for those who cannot renovate or those who know wrong but still deliberately do wrong.Every child must become an adult and will have to comply with the law.So from an early age, discipline is also a subject that every child must study.

But discipline a child cannot be equal to the anger of adults.It is impossible to stand on all laws.Article 28, Decree 04/2021/ND -CP stipulates the sanctioning of administrative violations in the field of education, stipulating the sanction of 5 - 10 million VND for acts of insulting honor, dignity and invasioncommitting learners' body but not to the extent of examining criminal liability or disciplining learners in contravention of regulations ... The violator must publicly apologize to the person who is offended the honor and dignity;Physical infringement.

The teacher in Vinh Tuong is responsible for his job.But who will be responsible for the lesions of the girl with her hair cut and her classmates - witnessing the teacher's actions?Is the discipline of the teacher's anger to be effective with the children or it only sows hatred, hatred and injuries that can be permanently among many children?

Discipline by love is not beating me and saying I love you.Nor are the cliché advice, teaching dogma.Discipline with love is to have a true love for the child, not by our anger.Not to explode fireflies but give him a match.

It was not like the other teacher and arrogantly said: "I will not cut beautifully but cut the smear to you because I have reminded it before", "I cut it so bad, not cut each part of blonde.Ah ". It is not a saying that comes from love, it is a saying of a cold power.

We can only receive respect when we must also give respect.Discipline a child cannot be equal to the power of teachers, parents, adults.That must be with a heart big enough.Because the last thing we want to receive will be a better child rather than the gloating of power that is executed like that.If you don't love a child, sorry, do not be a teacher or do not be a parent.Which love like that?